"People who are good are the people who understand the goodness for themselves"
(Edo Prasojo)
My men, in this present moment we have been very short with a virtuous man supplies, polite, sincere, and kind. But being a good person does not mean there are no weaknesses or flaws, but let us look at indicators of a person is good or not in the eyes of others, especially in the eyes of the girl child in general. And indicators that this time we try to discuss is about the things in themselves the flunky who disliked or even hated by all-out by the girl child. Happy listening..
Introduction
Most bachelor less understand or even know nothing about the things that could make girls may ilang feeling (il-feel) to them. Asking the occasional or perhaps frequent, "Why is he can not just escape without much to say anything meaningful, as a guide?" If until now you all still do not know or already know a little but still is a bit sketchy, so this time I will be a little sharing detail and depth about all the things that is very not liked by the girls. If the journey you will not understand it would be advisable to reread the Tartil order to understand all the meanings implied, written, or interpreted in reverse in this post.
Behavior-behavior that Hated Guy Girl:
Selfish
Most of the girls very darting through the hope that the guy can be a little lower or at least control his ego so as not issued in time is not right. Most of the girls of the view that a creature called the guy is being rivaled by abstinence for girls. Guy probably because of cultural traits that are often claimed that the boys lakilah which must be foremost in the lead, then that is not pleased if they have rivaled by the opposite sex.
Long hair
Anyone ever see Bujang longish but cool like, Aragon, Faramir, and her friends from the human race in the movie lord of the ring? They are well suited long-haired, but if we force ourselves to longish regardless of aesthetics in the layout of girls face then the result would be torn apart and then burned his soul because terlau il-feel to witness the painful eye and the soul. Well, especially coupled with adding colorful accessories hair tie, hair gel, well that far worse is the hair coloring dipirang alias. So get ready to break as many hearts of the girls at the sight of you.
Metrosexual
There are some circles who strongly agree and berfatwa "metrosexual" Surely it is nearer to Homo Sexual. "From the fatwa quoted may we describe it is possible that the Adam very much complaining and injured his mood when I have too long to wait for the girl who was busy make up. But it turns out she also never meanaruh sense when getting a man who really takes the time to select a perfume, shoes, or clothes that fit, maybe there is a bathroom should look for long because the shower is a ritual to cleanse ourselves from all the fatigue and stress . Because the woman is a creature who never would be made to wait then they will definitely upset when guys find this kind of behavior.
Hairy Men
Most of the footman would shake his head if the fine hairs dibadan they should be pruned out. In fact, most girls feel disgusted at the sight of a man with many feathers, like a beard but most make disgusted especially in the chest.
Eyes fixed on the breast
Sure, sure, and certainly if we ask the flunky hundred randomly about what the added value of a girl, of course the answer was breast. His eyes fixed and ready-made laws of nature if you see an interesting shape like this, it will not blink at all as if to capture these beautiful moments without the slightest closed. Women always ask "He had seen her every day, but why always have to be too much when we saw toward your chest?" As a result girls will feel uncomfortable because her breasts are too noted the withdrawal discomfort experienced when you're eating while we looked at people.
Sex, sex, and sex
Men must be very, very obsessed with sexual activity, over time, from start to have thoughts Lustful, the assumption is always in the direction of the bed, etc.. Sex is necessary for women but they do not like mengedepankanya as part of the lifestyle. So that women will not feel safe when around men who kept staring at him because they often feel is being made the object of male sexual fantasies that might lead to abuse, or rape.
Lying & Shoot
Honesty is bitter sweet but rather cheated because most women do not want if the partner is too honest. But the name is a lie still a lie, no matter how small lies can break the trust partner, the implication would be fruitful in fidelity mistrust each, like the words "Today is a lie about ... whether tomorrow would lie being alone with anyone." Mario said that the firm never "The truth must be smarter for him to know to what his honesty." So whatever sekagum your partner, do not ever try to lie even though it's occasionally fun. Lies are also closely related to derivatives products that boast, which is referred to here is, say that does not exist or as if there were other words making it up or also another form of boasting is exaggerated case of the real situation. Do not ever brag occasionally because the Eve so hate those who tell lies too much in his talks.
Not Sensitive
If there was a man who understands women, all of which exist in nature is bound to ensure that the woman would have any existing exchange on himself in order to have your (the discussion in the next post.) But try to think in reverse! However, if in fact you would not be able to understand it or not sensitive, so be ready only, with all his efforts he will continue to try to stay away from you while docked to the party that he thought much more sense. Emotion in women is up and down like hills and valleys, sometimes it feels good when you are under, but can be terrifying when you are on top. The best thing to do is the flunky with no question why the he can be angry and cry because things are very trivial. Women have a very special hormone specific alias, they can feel the stress of a particular stimulation, or sometimes feel overlooked simply because of late in-SMS.
Over Protective (rein)
Everything must ask permission, report to go with whom, where, until what time, should not be here, there should not be, then left the same it should not be, at least have to take care of Net Mail Self used to the new POLRES may accompany the road. Life seemed no good anymore because a lot of that limit, it felt like the free spirit, free in the broad sense. As if freed from excessive protection procedures can lead to even want to be free from bondage. This is serious if it should happen, not until everything is up to terletup from the mouth of the woman, because in fact women do not really like to say frankly. They are more fond to menunjukanya by gesture or talk in-depth through their eyes. If they were to burst separation word accompanied by a deep emotion (ie crying or angry), then surely you've gone too far. Give it a little space for him to realize that there are real partner to give him protection, referrals, and advice so he will be more aware that you really love her elegant manner.
Childish (childish)
One of the woman's instinct is to love and comfort, According to Drs. Frederick, character and psychological state of women undergoing a process of stagnation. If women do not have the emotional and comforting the kids, it's hard to be a good mother. Women can understand the children because of her feelings contain childishness. In fact, continued Dr.Frederick, in its development, women tend to be childish. Women are more likely to use prejudice, feelings and emotions rather than ratios. Women are conditioned to be more passive than active nature, was let go rather than be mastered. Women by nature are created to be the middle child and the husband so that he is the central point in maintaining harmony with the tendency of family members each.
Can be understood that the woman is a creature who wants everything that is childish because it is part of his instinct. Men are childish indeed sometimes very fun but if too often or in fact it is his character so be prepared, because women will leave you because they are not mature or "boy mom.
Arrogant Again Gallery
Girls most disgusted and uncomfortable when should close and lingering with an arrogant guy. Confident that close to the arrogant? The answer is no, because women can very easily feel the vibrations of the thoughts of others, including people who feel proud. Suffice it that convinces her feelings when a person is arrogant then he will believe in her feelings, do not need physical evidence in the form of recordings and the testimony at trial, simply by feelings alone. Material not always be on the same line with happiness, so does the love notabenenya is one form of emotional expression and certainly will not be assessed with nominal rates regardless of that. Women, girls, or the widow was not happy with the Adam, who liked to flaunt wealth, rank parents, and so forth. So often we find that if that be the girlfriend of Smug are circles of women matre, easy, spoiled (former Jablay), or even a hedonist acute.
Smoker
Girls very hated by people who smoke around them, the girl also looked at smoking is a manifestation of the money that is burned or the equivalent of poison being advertised. Many men who often chose cigarettes than eat, because the cigarette-like drugs that should be regularly drunk. Then why are many women who actually kehidupanya located in the middle of smokers? Father smoker, smoking his brother, sister smoking, friends work together or sekampusnya smoking, smoking neighbors. So would not want them to get used to and trying to accept the fact that this nation is a nation of smokers, then stop demanding too much to get men who are not smokers. Then that although women do not like with cigarettes, but they could have a husband that heavy smokers, but actually they really expect the man to change that someday.
Flirtatious
Flirty who try peeled here is the specific behavior where the boys pay attention to every girl that passes in depanya then commented on them, be it "Wew, Uuu ..., hmm .., etc" Believe that women really hate being treated like that.
Rough and Tempramental
A little-bit-snapped snapped, a few interesting hands roughly, a little intimidating to look grim. Men, women are really very soft and sensitive, they like the software if we treat them harshly and brutally so be prepared some or even all of your memories will be dissolved, dispersed, and can not be recovered. She was gentle, then it must be treated with great feeling and deep understanding and thorough.
Dirty, dull, dirty, and Not Neat
Definitely a guy going agrees if they all do not have the time of maximal or sufficient to be able to freshen up carefully. If it's too neat maybe later even mistaken for enthusiasts of the same sex, but wajiblah realized that the guy who would be neat for the girls feeling comfortable around him and from there they would try to probe the lives of these boys why could orderly serapih it. Tidy not only when they want to carry a date but, that does neat to be a part of the lifestyle. If interpreted girls upside down then instinctively will judge that "Looking at him he just could not let alone he would notice me." And so it is.
Lazy
Sleep late, wake up lunch, reluctantly went to college and believe that a guy like this is very challenging to be a girlfriend but do not be surprised if later on you will only remember the memories of togetherness with the him, her, and maybe he. Upset same why my girlfriend but why every marriage they must have married someone else, "Lack of what my Lord?" And the answer is easy, less diligent. Any woman who would not want to live in misery because selecting a lazy man, they like the flunky a mature, hard-working, or that have been established. Because essentially adult women is much faster than the adam in general.
Tailor Rags
Occasionally praised the woman can fly very high, but all that excess is not good, not. If we are too often menggombal in women, the women will feel bored maybe even without your knowledge he will establish an emotional relationship with someone else (cheating) on your back because he would expect a man who can praise and laud him at the right time.
Slow
Did you know that sebenarnaya that the Eve are eager man who can initiate and control the direction of the conversation. Women are not not want to start first but, they really want prialah who control their emotions during the conversation, emotions up and drop off, drain the curiosity, and open many new knowledge that she had never known before. All require a measured intelligence intelligence plus a master of emotional intelligence. But whether all this can occur in people who do not have these things? Of course the answer is not. And the girl comments would definitely say that you are less busy, slow (less knowledge), or roughly FOOLS less disconnected, or just plain like him most.
Talking Too Fast & Not Clear
Actually spoke too fast do not speak clearly differ, but most people who talk too fast would obscure the meaning of the conversation or to make conversation so it is not clear. Girls will think you are a charlatan, if you continue to speak very quickly. Women only using 20% of the total conversation to the point verbally, then the remaining 80% of conversations conducted in the form of Body Language (Body Language). So do not be surprised if there is a girl who talks in circles in it-there just for thirty minutes-an, who try to better express their emotions through language is an aspect of motion earlier. If there is a guy that can make conversation with the system adopted by women as explained earlier, then of course the girl would not want to let go of you and try to bind themselves to you or even want a valid bond. (Discussion about Body Language will be discussed in the next post)
Without Giving Tips are welcome
Communication patterns women far, far enough, and even very much different from men, women communicate because they want to eliminate the burden of the mind. While the men to communicate with different purposes, namely in order to achieve the alias problem solving solutions. Do occasionally use the communication pattern guys on girls because the results would be messy, for example, "What the hell does that lecturers, really killer really. So lazy college tu people will become. "Do you guys would occasionally give advice that contains this kind," After all he is a lecturer in you, besides lectures eye is very important for your future career. "It will very likely that he will sulk against ye you without you knowing it, the fruit of the naivete of the men.
And the girl inside was definitely would say, "This man, who told him to give advice / lecture about?" It can also be seen at the scene when Peter Parker MJ went flat in the film Spiderman 2, where MJ is like telling a sense of disappointment to a newspaper very critical of his voice. Peter gives advice contains the motivation for MJ did not give up on the criticism. But what happened instead of MJ feel ignored her feelings because Peter was not concerned about her feelings but, on his own feelings are also trying to tell as good and as closely as possible with what nature MJ. Then it is sufficient to avoid you just listen to the girl alone.
However, you do have to give bilapun give feedback response in the form of a joke like, "Hate is the beginning of love, loh." Joke is also required to see the condition of the woman's emotions, do not remove the joke when he was disappointed by the things that are very serious such as: family problems, finances, health, employment, and so forth. Next you will feel that he often wanted to show that he has an attachment with your mind. (The discussion in the next post)
Excerpted from various sources with the necessary changes ..
Taken From: VIVAnews
